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I have a serious problem. My mother doesn't work during the holidays, bescause she is a teacher. Therefore she goes to and from places to work at other places during the holidays, dragging me with her. The place we are at now is bearable, becuase we are staying with family, but im really missing my partner, and im slowly losing feeling/reality becuase of it (we have a strong link which makes us very unhealthyily dependant on each other) and although im willing to hang around here for another week or so, shes saying she wants to go somewhere else straight afterwords, when we get home. I cant bear this, but im not quite old enough to do much else, and im still very much at the mercy of my mother. Shes not understanding at all and shes very unconsiderate. She just sayes 'thats the way it is". I need to find a way to stay home, or to make her let me stay home, or consider my feelings and stay home with me. Apart from mundane things (ie: staying at a friends place etc) what can i do? can anyone reccomend anything? its really scaring me, the propspect of having to deal with this for tomuch longer | |
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VictoriaMoondance
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No magical solutions are applicable here, if you ask me. And certainly not anything moral that doesn't involve twisting the will of another person.
Think of it this way. You are, in reality, a teenage girl who can't stand being away from her boyfriend. And I don't say that in a way that is meant to sound mean, many teenagers can have strong 'links' magical or otherwise that last a long time - my relationship has lasted a few years now, and most couples I know can't even take a few weeks. But, regardless of what magical link you have, what do you think is the best solution for a teenager who misses their significant other so much?
My opinion is that you need to talk to your parents about it, maturley, and not act boy crazy but sensible instead. Second, as you said, this dependency is unhealthy, and thus youshould not feed it. Find ways to show him how much you care for or miss eachother without letting your family life rot in the process (they deserve time, respect and love, too, and they earned it the hard way). | |
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